Hubby and me also tend to compare them in term of physical development and progress but we keep it for 2 of us only.we understand both have their own profile and definitely we support them for what ever they are. Most importantly as a parents we have always highlight to them their similarities to make them feel connected as well as developing teamwork and learning to share. We do believe the most important thing for siblings is to take care of each other and love as a family.
There are times this two heroes will fight with each other..there'll be time they tried to get our best attention and show us something so that we praise them.at this point of time,as a parents it is very important to be fair and did not show support to only one.as a parents,we resolve things and teach them to come back to family thingy.remind them of the teamwork,caring,sharing and love to each another.
But there's one thing that cant help to compare and share here.No 1 use to bring small car in his hand wherever he went to.he once tried to bring 2 cars but when we said "only one toy" he'll let go one car and survive well with only one..but my no 2,he also loves car and..he loves to bring more than one car in his tiny hands..when we said "only one car" he'll shout us back and keep on bringing 3 cars instead..sometimes 4!one right hand,one left hand,one left armpit,one right armpit!! This no 2,when he said no..means no.i cant discuss with him.he wants to be the winner.at all time. Huhu this is what i concerned about.it's a good quality to have in this tough situation.however he has to be guided so it will make him success..
Lot more need to be learned to be a good mother.as i will be work at home mom,parenting tips and patience are the key things i have to improved on.
